Rachel Fusco (she/her)
Accepting new clients in Ridgefield, Connecticut and virtual therapy for clients located anywhere in California and Connecticut.
Hi. I’m Rachel Fusco.
I help women quiet their self-doubt, trust their own voice, and learn to lean into their ambition without the anxiety. Therapy isn’t just for when things fall apart; therapy is for when you’re ready for something better.
Maybe you're tired of second-guessing yourself, saying yes when you mean no, or spending so much time thinking about other people's reactions that it's hard to trust what you really want.
You're used to figuring things out. People rely on you to get things done, keep things moving, and remember everything that needs to be handled. If you can do something, it can feel easier to just take care of it—even when you're already stretched thin. Asking for help, questioning expectations, or admitting you can't do it all can feel surprisingly complicated. After all, people are used to you having it together.
You don't want to disappoint people. You can usually tell when someone is upset, uncomfortable, or disappointed—and you might feel responsible for making it better. Saying no can feel selfish. Bringing up something that's bothering you can feel mean or unnecessarily difficult. You avoid or delay the uncomfortable conversation, but the frustration builds.
You replay conversations and interactions. Your mind keeps going long after the conversation ends. Did you come across the wrong way? Was your tone off? Did you say too much—or not enough? You think about what you should have said, how you could have handled things differently, and whether the other person took it the way you intended. Even small interactions can take up a surprising amount of mental space.
You know what you want—until someone disagrees. Suddenly, you're questioning your decision, explaining yourself, or wondering if you're being unreasonable. Maybe you were sure of yourself until someone expressed disappointment or had a different opinion. It's hard to know when to reconsider and when to trust your own judgment, even when you've already thought things through.
You wonder when someone will realize you don't have it all figured out. You work hard, prepare, and try to do things well, but it's difficult to take your accomplishments at face value. You might chalk success up to luck, feel like you should know more than you do, or worry that asking a question will expose what you don't know. Other people seem confident in what they're doing. Why doesn't it always feel that way for you?
It’s hard to take a compliment. You notice what could have gone better before you give yourself credit for what went well. You finish one thing and move straight on to the next. You might know, logically, that you've done enough, but that doesn't always mean it feels like enough.
Even when things are going well, it's hard to feel good about them. You’re waiting for the other “shoe” to drop and preparing for the worst case scenario that usually doesn’t happen. But you don’t know what else to do to feel in control.
Being perfect, not making mistakes, being a people-pleaser isn’t who you are, they are habits. Therapy can help you start to shift these patterns. Imagine if you felt confident in your relationships. If you felt good at work without needing constant reassurance. If you said “no” without guilt—and meant it. If you spoke up without second-guessing yourself or worrying you were being "too much." If you hit “send” on that email or text—without rewriting it a dozen times. If you trusted your gut instead of crowdsourcing your every decision.
Together, we’ll create space for self-compassion that feels doable (not cringey), and build trust in yourself and others, one step at a time.
Email me to schedule a free 15 minute consultation to see if we are a good fit for working together. Or, learn more about why I became a therapist and my therapeutic approach.
Am I a perfectionist or people-pleaser?
If you struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, imposter syndrome, and a loud inner-critic, this might look look like:
feeling constant pressure to be high achieving that you’re taking on too much (burning out) or too little (avoidance and procrastination)
social anxiety and fear of being around others because you feel awkward or worry that you say the wrong things / don’t say the right things
self-criticism and internal thoughts that are really, really mean - thoughts that you’d never say to someone that you care about
spending too much time on work worrying about assignments, projects, or tasks, thinking you won’t do it right despite the evidence that it usually turns out ok
excessive guilt or shame that you aren’t doing enough or being enough, worry that you will disappoint others or yourself
difficulty saying no and taking on more work, staying up late fixing group work, or taking on more than you want to or more than you can handle
difficulty asking for help and not wanting to be a burden on others; worrying about letting other people down, feeling obligated to do the thing on your own to prove that you can to yourself or to others
low self-esteem from not feeling good enough, from social pressures, from messages that you are too big, too small, too much, and not enough
internalized -isms that you hate but are still in your head about gender, race, sexuality, ability, body size, etc
sadness and/or losing interests in the things that you used to enjoy, things that now feel like pressure or a disappointment
lack of motivation and difficulty concentrating because you’re feeling uninterested, overwhelmed, unsure about where to start, or frustrated because it’s hard to keep up
falling behind on work because you’re doing too much and don’t know how to say no or because big feelings like worry or anxiety are interrupting your work flow
loneliness or isolation because of social anxiety and worry that you will say the wrong thing, embarrass yourself, or feel awkward
people-pleasing because it feels mean to be assertive or wrong to have boundaries
explosive anger that comes up unexpectedly because you have a limit to accepting whatever comes your way and being passive with friends, teachers, bosses, partners takes a toll on you